"You can't wait until life's not hard anymore to be happy. One day you wake up and it's now just me. I'm calling the shots, what do I want for myself? I had to move quick," Ashlee, 20, reflects on the moment she decided to participate in inCommunity Connect's programs at the tender age of 16.
"I took that big jump. Then, once I took it, I kept taking big jumps."
At the time, she was a Year 11 student working at a fast-food chain: “I was nervous and unsure if I wanted to enter the program. But I took that big jump. Then, once I took it, I kept taking big jumps."
After spending four to five months in local crisis accommodation, Ashlee was offered the opportunity to enter inCommunity Connect's SPin Program – a supported program where young people can build a strong rental history gaining experience in a share-house environment.
In SPin, house meetings occur every week to two weeks, where case managers support and guide the young people through common share-house discussions and negotiations. Is everyone contributing to cleaning? Are there any house maintenance issues to be addressed?
Ashlee recalls there always being issues to be addressed in these house meetings, but the process helped her to be assertive without being confrontational – "not to get hot-headed."
Regular, individual case management meetings also took place. “This is where we would discuss life goals," says Ashlee. "Every week, you try and check off your list. I would have two pages of goals for the month. Once that goal is there in front of me, I'm going to get it done."
"During Ashlee's three years in the SPin program, she definitely did get things done."
During Ashlee's three years in the SPin program, she definitely did get things done. Graduating high school, getting her driver's licence, commencing her Certificate III in Early Childhood Education and then becoming a full-time childcare educator... Wow!
With her sights then set on entering inCommunity Connect's CAP (Crisis Accommodation Program), Ashlee moved into her own unit and has built on her strong rental history, supported by inCommunity Connect's Case Management team.
"I felt so much better – it's new-found freedom. I did get a little lonely by myself," she admits, "but I also loved my own space."
Not someone to stay still, Ashlee has since completed her Certificate III and taken on a second job with her brother-in-law, now working seven days a week. She considers this to have been a wonderful period of growth: "Being assertive and also exercising patience. I really lent on the communication skills I had been developing."
During this time, Ashlee also completed the Tenancy Skills Institute course, Skillsets for Successful Tenancies—Dollars and Sense, online.
"I did it just before I left CAP, heading into a private rental," she explains. "It taught me a lot. It explains and answers questions you have. Handing over a large amount of money for your bond, what questions should I be asking? Do I need to do the carpet cleaning? Little bits of information that you tend to forget."
"I had become that independent person. In my head I was thinking, I need to rip the band-aid off."
Nearing 12 months in CAP, Ashlee was ready to take on her next new challenge. As she says, "I had become that independent person. In my head I was thinking, I need to rip the band-aid off. It was such a great program, but it was time to take the big jump and find a private rental."
When applying for a rental property, Ashlee exercised her resilience once more, submitting applications for approximately 30 houses, sometimes with no reply.
"Location, prices, description of the property all impacted this, but then I got a response from one which is where I'm living now," she says. "The property manager said that my profile and all of my rental history looked great. I got approved for it and here we are three months later. It's going pretty well."
In sharing this news, it is evident that having her own home gives Ashlee enormous pride, and for more reasons than we might first think.
"[My dad] was sleeping rough. It's made me so proud that I could give him something and take him off the street."
As she reveals, "The final thing on my goal list was to get a house for me and my dad. He's not the wealthiest and he is sick. He was sleeping rough. It's made me so proud that I could give him something and take him off the street. It wasn't only a house for me – it was for my dad and his partner. I couldn't watch him suffer in the cold anymore."
Incredible.
Bravery is in Ashlee's DNA, and so too is her palpable growth mindset. Her sister inspires her every day: "When she gives me advice, I'm taking it. She's also my biggest fan too – someone who's going to stand beside you. She's always there to help me and support me."
Helping people also inspires and motivates Ashlee: "I love to do it. Being able to shape someone's pathways. It means so much to me. I did that, I helped you, I got you there. As an early childhood educator, you might help a young child say their first words. It feels good and makes you feel proud of yourself."
Of her future goals, Ashlee shares that, in October 2024, she's embarking on new study to become a nurse. This could lead to more studies as a paramedic or fulfilling Ashlee's dream to work at the Queensland Children's Hospital where she spent significant time as a child: "Those nurses were my best friends."
In concluding this chat, she comments on the inCommunity Connect Case Management Team:
"During the years, I think I worked with everyone [in that team]. They all taught me something new. To the case managers, I would like to say thank you so much for helping me grow into a mature woman – for giving me a great mindset and skillset to work with. I don't think I could have done it without them. There is so much appreciation for what they have done for me. The highs and the lows, we were doing it together. I'll continue to use all the skills I learnt, and I'll continue to make everyone proud."
The InCommunity Connect Case Management Team couldn't be prouder!
Building practical tenancy skills, confidence and developing broader life skills is why InCommunity's tenancy education courses are so important for young people embarking on their journey as tenants.
In this video, two recent graduates from inCommunity Connect's Hargreaves House, Bailey and Tori, share their experience completing the Skillsets for Successful Tenancies Dollars and Sense course. Both graduates come from a class cohort that included all tenants at the crisis shelter for 16-to-21-year-olds.
This was an immensely proud day for the graduates, inCommunity Connect Case Manager Rachel Rule and the InCommunity Connect Tenancy Skills Institute team, Chris Jones and Blair Roberts.
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